The Bay Ridge community has come together in support of a memorial bench dedicated to the life of a local LGBTQIA+ teen that was recently defaced in an act of vandalism. The bench, painted in the colors of the Pride flag, was installed in memory of Megan Alano, who passed away in March 2020. This incident marks the second act of vandalism targeting the bench in the past month, according to the South Brooklyn ally organization Gay Ridge.
The bench was defaced with red graffiti and anti-LGBTQIA+ slurs, prompting a strong condemnation from the community. Gay Ridge shared photos of the vandalism on social media, calling it a spread of “hate, division, and pain.” The NYPD’s Hate Crime Task Force is currently investigating the incident after receiving a report that an individual covered the bench in red spray paint and slurs before fleeing the scene.
Despite the vandalism, the community has shown resilience and unity in the face of such hateful acts. Jason Graubard, co-director of Gay Ridge, expressed his admiration for the community coming together to stand up against the vandalism and ensure a positive presence in the neighborhood. The organization is working with Alano’s family and local leaders to refurbish the bench and address ongoing queerphobia in the area.
Liam Vogel, fellow co-director of Gay Ridge, emphasized the importance of fostering understanding and inclusion in the community. While seeking justice for the vandalism, Vogel also highlighted the need for long-term solutions to address the underlying issues of hatred and discrimination. The recent incidents of anti-LGBTQIA+ vandalism in Bay Ridge are part of a larger trend, which Gay Ridge attributes to the hostile political climate at a national level.
In response to the vandalism, the organization is urging the community to support the fundraiser established in Alano’s memory through the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention. As they plan their next steps, Gay Ridge emphasizes the importance of coming together as a community to combat hate and promote acceptance.
If you or someone you know is struggling with suicidal thoughts or a crisis, please reach out to the Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 800-273-8255 or text HOME to the Crisis Text Line at 741741. Remember, these services are free and confidential, and help is available. Let’s stand together against hate and support one another in creating a more inclusive and accepting community for all.